Connection is Communication

What is connection?

At its heart connection is the underpinning reason why we communicate and spend time with others.

We communicate to share our interests,  ideas and things that bring US joy with those around us.

Because sharing in those moments makes, well everything, more worthwhile at the end of the day!

Connection is about that connection with ourselves, knowing what we love and what makes us tick, as much as it is about our connection with others and the world around us

Connecting and feeling a sense of belonging  is at the heart of why we are all here, we dont need to use words to connect.

But by  supporting connection with our babies and toddles we  support our toddlers communication,  talking, wellbeing and sense of self.

What does connection look like? Or more importantly what does it feel like?

Connection can be a laugh, a look, sharing in a moment. It can be a moment with ourselves, an animal, another person.

For me it feels like  warmth, a glow, joy, belonging and safety. 

What does it feel like for you? Who and where do you feel you can be truly yourself? Where do you feel safe and can fully unwind? Who can you share your ideas and thoughts with, with no sense of having to edit or be anything than who you are? Answers to these questions will look different for each and everyone of us.

The best bit is we can use our everyday little moments in routines and play to spark connection with our toddlers.

So here are some things to  support connection at home with your toddler:

• Respond, respond, respond; to your child’s non-verbal communication

• Let them choose the play

• Spend time doing something they enjoy 

• Eat a meal together

• Be present (as busy parents we cant be there every minute for out children) but we can set aside time to connect and doing something fun together.

• Watch and make a note of the things they do and enjoy.

Supporting your toddlers communication development through connection is  one of the things I focus on in my bespoke one to one support. If you would like support on tuning in to and supporting your child, especially if they arnt yet using or don’t have many words. Please get in touch